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March 10, 2019March 10, 2019 Aparajita SinghLeave a comment

As an Indian kid, I grew up watching daily soaps with my mother. Each show had the same concept, a simple girl just trying to live her life the way she wants and some other girl trying to put her down. My mother always told me "aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai" (A… Continue reading Friend or Foe? Your choice.

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Unhein Udne Do…!

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Unhein Udne Do…!

July 27, 2012July 8, 2017 Aparajita SinghLeave a comment

Pankhoon mein udaan bharkarJee rahi thi vo jee bharkarKyun daali bediyan uske pairon mein?Kyun bhej diya use gairon mein?Tode uske sapne aise...Udte panchi ko dala ho pinjre mein jaise!Kya nahi hai use sapne dekhne ka hak?Atyachar sahengi ladkiyan akhir kab tak?Kab milega unhein apna har adhikar?Kab kar paengi vo apne sapne sakar?Panchi hain vo unmukt… Continue reading Unhein Udne Do…!

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Software Developer by profession, Blogger by choice! Writing is not just a hobby, it's my passion. I convey my thoughts through poems, short stories and articles. Currently working as an Appian Developer, I'm also a Certified Yoga Instructor. I love to read, write, doodle, paint, dance and sing!

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As an Indian kid, I grew up watching daily soaps with my mother. Each show had the same concept, a simple girl just trying to live her life the way she wants and some other girl trying to put her down. My mother always told me "aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai" (A woman is a woman's worst enemy). I did not understand how true it was until it started happening to me. Whenever something bad happened to me, a girl was most likely to be behind all of it. I have hated myself, all because of what I heard about me or whatever happened to me. My entire life I had girls spreading rumors, revealing my secrets, snatching the people who made me happy, making fun of my looks, body shaming me, or trying to take away opportunities from me. And I still kept looking for validation from such people. I barely had women (except for the one's in my family) in my life who supported me. I won't deny talking behind someone else's back. I did it to people who I knew (or told) did it to me. I never lied & thought of it as revenge. Little did I know that it was doing more harm to me than good. As a 26 year old, I have more women friends than enemies and it has had such a huge positive impact on my life! I always had guy friends who admired me but it was never the same. They have a different way of expressing their emotions and sometimes they do not even understand the things I talk about, support or want for myself. You cannot just keep doing things with the same enthusiasm if you do not see it making any positive impact. Am I right? This support is the reason why I keep trying new things. Female doodlers inspired me to channel the artist inside me and the support encouraged me to keep going. For a society as a whole, it's crucial for us women to stop this girl on girl hate and to start admiring each other and pushing others forward. We already have a lot of things holding us back. In this fight against gender inequality, we need to stand together and not against each other. Embrace the diversity that we are and let the world know that we want to be all of it and more! ✨ Happy Women's Day ❤️ I know it's two days too late but better late than never, right? (Continued 👇)

What's the first thing you notice in a person? For me, it's the smile and eyes. It's all about how the smile makes me feel 💫 . . . . . . . . . #clickedononeplus #oneplus_india #oneplus3t #oneplus #phonephotography #portraits #portraitphotography #goa #goadiaries #randomthoughts #throwback #candid #happy #candidmoments #snapseed #snapseedaily #igindia #iger #instagram #writersofinstagram #bloggersofinstagram #positivevibes

फूलों के रंग से 🌷 #storytime I dropped my phone, again and this time the screen stopped working. It was like my phone was saying "Bro get your shit together first!" The service centre is very far from home so I had to wait till the weekend to get it repaired. The moment, I realized my phone isn't working, all I could do was think of all the things I would be losing for a while. I was horrified. Although, some reasons were justifiable but most were just nonsensical. I started searching for my old smart phone, immediately. Charged it, tried putting my sim in it to no avail as it needed a micro sim and I had a nano sim. So I settled to using a basic phone and using smartphone only with wifi. The thought of not having a smartphone when wifi was not available scared me a lot. I transferred my sim to smartphone as fast as I could but the phone was just too slow. Using it for three days was very exhausting. This whole experience made me realize how far we have come in terms of technological advancement and yet how it is the same thing which is holding us back. Gone are the days when I could just think of random things without worrying about my phone. I still can, like I did when I was in Goa at Agonda beach. I had no networkthere but I still had my phone and so I did not go bonkers. It was a calming experience. I did not care for so many unimportant things. I felt light, like there was a burden taken off my shoulders. But as soon as I had my network back, I started checking my notifications, which is what do in my free time. There are so many things we miss out on while our eyes are glued to our phones. I realize it whenever I keep my phone aside. It doesn't matter where I am, I find something which is worth giving up my phone. Like these flowers in the picture. I'm lucky I had my phone to click them but there was so much more to the moment which I couldn't capture. Do you think you can live without your smartphone? Can you go out without your phone and not care about it at all? Are you comfortable with your answers to these questions? Well, I know that I need to sort out my priorities.

#Throwback to the time I was so busy with work in the office that I could hardly go out for an evening walk. And one day, I got lucky ❤️ This picture reminds me to take a break. You cannot keep working all the time. Even if you do, you might not be as efficient as you can be. I am the kind of person who gets so engrossed in work that I have dreams about it for days and can see my laptop screen in front of me, even when it's not. There are times when I keep working without taking a break. I can complete the task but when I finally get a break, I realize a better approach to the task I completed. I know it's not healthy and that's why taking a break (even if for a minute) is an important part of my routine. I know people who work really hard, even skip their meals but are still not able to complete tasks at hand. Mostly because they are exhausted and don't realize it. This culture of hustling has led us to believe that all we need to do is WORK. This competitiveness is doing no good to us, physically or mentally. Even the content we are creating/project we are working on is suffering. The amount and length of breaks one can take may vary. You might think, you don't have enough time but just take a chance on it. Just pause for a little while. If you don't have enough time: Close your eyes and take deep breaths. If you can afford: Go out for a walk. Observe the beauty around and come back with an energized brain. You get leaves at work for a reason. Take them. Don't open your laptops at all in those days. Do things that make you happy. Just live for yourself for a while. Put yourself first 🌸 . . . . . . . #bangalore_insta #bangalore #skyporn #sky #evening #evening_sky #snapseed #snapseedaily #oneplus_india #oneplus3t #clickedononeplus #india_gram #takeabreak #igindia #igdaily #writinglife #writersofinstagram #writing #writingprompts

There's nothing more important than your happiness 🌸 Tried 3 things (Painting, lettering and flatlays) that make me anxious together. . . . . . . #flatlay #flatlays #flatlaystyle #lettering #brushlettering #tombowdualbrushpens #camlin #watercolor #nevergiveup #quotestoliveby #quotes #doodlesofinstagram #art_spotlight #art #artistsoninstagram #artistsofinstagram #artstagram #tombow #blackwork #typography #igindia #india_gram #brustro #camlinindia #brustropaper #carnations #flowers #flower_daily

दिए की लौ बने, तो रौशनी बिखराए। ज्वाला बने, तो सब राख कर जाए। जुनून की इस आग पर, काबू रखना इतना, कि हमेशा सिर्फ खुशियां ही फैलाए। . . . . . . #throwback #snapseed #snapseedaily #lightplay #diwali2018 #rangoli #micropoetry #poetrygram #hindi #hindipoetry #writinglife #writingprompts #writersofinstagram #writing #diya #igindia #iger #positivity #positivevibes #oneplus_india #oneplus3t #clickedononeplus

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